How to Update Your Headshots

Headshots are not what they used to be. We have many more uses for them now....business, all platforms of social media, publications, etc. All of which may require a different style/look to evoke the desired perception.

I recently styled my Orlando client with whom I've been working for 11 years. She had not done a headshot since the beginning of her career which has vastly escalated. After our recent update to her wardrobe, it was time to arrange a photo session that better reflects who she is today as a professional.

Gary Hughes of Hughes Fioretti Photography in Winter Park, FL captured the many sides of Marina who wanted to portray a strong and confident professional. Mission accomplished.

Here we are in action....

BEFORE

AFTER

Bra Department

Bra selection/fit is something I've never addressed in Be-Coming Attractions, but it is always the first stop when I work with my clients. Though I've collected dozens of quality bras through the years - that all fit at one time or another - last week it was as if I were going to the bra department for the first time. I felt like my own client! All of my own collection have underwires and that isn't an option now as I'm healing. Not to mention that I didn't know what size to try!

Come to find out, there were other customers there who had gone through the same procedure and confirmed that I had made the best choice in the "TRUE" brand.

Discover True & Co Bras

Apparently, this line was designed for women in mind who had undergone surgery. Whether you have gone through this kind of experience or not, I highly recommend this product line! After trying numerus non-underwire styles, this one hit the mark...for fit, softness, lift and shape! It is not only extremely comfortable, but supportive. They come in a wide range of sizes, colors and styles for any strap style that may suit your needs. For everyday wear, I may never go back to an underwire again!

The Adjustable Triangle Bra is the style I chose....

I love the wide back!

Trail Blazers - Updating the blazers in your wardrobe

In an era where trends cycle in and out at an alarming rate, understanding personal style is the key to presenting a self-image that stands the test of time. Most trends simply don't apply to many of us, but we can always take what works for us and leave the rest behind.

This season, the Blazer is literally blazing trails - in all styles and fabrications for every aspect of your life - from oversized to very fitted. I highly recommend adding this timeless, classic piece to your wardrobe to elevate your game on every level. Choose a style you can wear with multiple combinations. This is an investment piece as it's likely you will keep jackets for several years, so buy the best quality you can afford.....especially in black or navy.

Ralph Lauren

This oversized blazer gives a more casual vibe. PRO TIP: Be careful if you're petite!

Another favorite. This jacket offers so much versatility....it can be worn with nearly anything. I would love it with black leather-like leggings! Veronica Beard is also known for adding optional dickeys to her jackets which look like shirts - and it changes the look completely!

Ralph Lauren

Perfectly gorgeous, classic and timeless, and updated in leather.

This was my choice for the season. The light weight crepe is appropriate for a warm climate and it can be worn multiple ways - dressed up or down. I love the ruched sleeves - a signature style of Cinq a Sept that adds a touch of casual elegance.

New Lifestyle, New Recipe

Last month a new client contacted me who had recently retired from her corporate job and had moved to Hilton Head, South Carolina. She had traveled the world with her executive position with Estee Lauder in charge of airport retail globally. (What a great job!) Most of you know that I began my career with Estee Lauder so it was great fun to connect with one of somewhat similar commonality.

Now that Robyn is no longer in the corporate world and is leading a very different life playing golf and socializing with new friends, she sought me out for a new style. The old look wasn't working anymore!

Since many of my clients are reluctant to publicize their "before" pics. I have honored that wish from Robyn, so this is the result of her re-invention.

Discovering Robyn

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work! With Hair Pro, Vinny at Cosmo & Co, West Palm Beach

Tips for Wedding Season

Wedding season is upon us, and finding the perfect ensemble for those "I dos" can be challenging for any guest. But when you are in the spotlight as mother of the bride or groom, the pressure can feel even greater. 

Finding the perfect dress for a mother of the bride or groom can feel like looking for a needle in a haystack.  Not only does it need to be appropriate and respectful of the situation and all family members involved, but it needs to be right for pictures and complementary to you, your shape - and who you are.  Clients have sought my advice lately because the task is so daunting - and difficult! Here are some of the selections I found that are on trend, but appropriate for many wedding venues.

This sandal is the perfect style and neutral metallic color to go with just about anything.  The height of the heel is comfortable for standing at receptions and dancing until midnight.  The back of of the shoe covers your ankle so your dress won't get caught under your foot.  Note:  Your bag should compliment your shoe.

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My Tips for Creating Your Best Online Dating Profile

Here is the video we just shot that will guide you through the steps and provide essential tips for creating an online dating profile. The best part...I shot this with my bestie, Jacqueline Whitmore, who is the dating etiquette expert for  elitesingles.com. What are some of your best tips and tricks when creating your profiles? What catches your eye most when you review someone's dating profile online? 

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Eileen Fisher fashion show in Boca Raton

What a fun day with the Eileen Fisher team as the celeb stylist tipster at Bloomingdale's in Boca Raton!! They had invited me to offer some tips and tricks at their fashion show and champagne reception at The Town Center Mall in Boca Raton today. And the surprise was that so many of my friends and clients came....one I hadn't seen in 30 years!! All because of FB!!

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Upstyle Your Look for a New Year!!

Welcome 2017!! It's time for new goals and new beginnings! 

It's ever so fun to be a holiday gift to someone who is excited about making positive changes in their look. Whenever this happens, I always wish I'd wrapped up in a big bow, but somehow I never remember the ribbon.

Brita was given the gift of my services by her husband for Christmas. What a beautiful change!!

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Holiday 2016 is Here

HOLIDAY PARTY CHIC

It's often a dilemma to decide what to wear for holiday parties - especially if you have to work all day before the event. If in doubt wear a LBD (little black dress) and take along some great jewelry and sexy shoes to glam it up when you're ready to head out.  Don't forget your makeup bag and hairbrush to freshen up and look party ready! 

This combo is ideal from office to party.  Wear a jacket and pumps for day and replace with a pretty wrap and fab shoes. Add jewels, freshen up and...Oilaa!!

Dressy black pants and a beautiful top always work.

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THE VELVET TOUCH

Velvet is the luxe fabric of the season and when better to feature it than during the holidays? 

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TOP OFF YOUR HOLIDAYS WITH STYLE

As I said above, a great top or blouse will get you everywhere this season!  I've always loved those with a twist of some kind - and I adore asymmetry.  Here are some of my picks.....  

Milly: Wear with a long, simple, sparkly necklace, beautiful pants and sexy shoes

BCBG: The bonus is you can wear a bra with this!  I'm alwayslooking for black tops that have an edge.

Vince Camuto: A beautiful work blouse for the holiday season

Bonjour Paris!

Hello Friends! 

Well, I've only been home from Paris for three weeks and already it seems like ages ago.  It doesn't take long for reality to set in!  

While traveling, I read a darling book called "The Little Paris Bookshop."  It called to me in many ways, but the most poignant was how I related to the main character in how we both work. He owned a floating bookshop on the Seinne called The Literary Apothecary.

"Perdue used his ears, his eyes and his instincts.  From a single conversation, he was able to discern what each soul lacked.  From a certain degree, he could read from a body's posture, it's movements and its gestures....he can see and hear through most people's camouflage.....A book is both a medic and medicine at once.  Putting the right novels to the appropriate ailments: that's how I sell books."  It's the same as understanding a person's persona and putting them in the right clothes. 

I have an expression that I call processing.  It's the perfect term for all the senses I use to know who my clients really are.  All antennas are up....to watch, listen and observe.  Add telepathy and an extensive knowledge of resources and I have my prescription.

Dressing people can be complicated - and is often not about fashion.  It's about giving them a style and an identity that suits them, their lifestyle and whatever occasion (or situation) arises. Owning your look sends a message to whomever may be in your comany.  It's very uncomfortable to feel and look like you tried...and missed!  And many times it really is about nailing the moment!

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